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Things
I Love

Books, podcasts, movies, and more that have shaped my understanding of healing, relationships, and what it means to be human.

Relationships + Intimacy

Inner Life + Meaning

Family + Belonging

Justice + Power

Wonder + Child Mind

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Movie

Taste of Cherry

Abbas Kiarostami’s Palme d’Or–winning film follows Mr. Badii as he drives the dusty hills on the outskirts of Tehran, searching for someone willing to accept a strange request: to be there after he takes his own life. What unfolds is a series of quietly unsettling—and sometimes unexpectedly tender—conversations about choice, dignity, and what keeps a person alive.

This film doesn’t argue or instruct—it listens. Kiarostami makes room for the hardest questions without trying to resolve them, and the long pauses start to feel like part of the dialogue. It’s a story about presence: what it means to sit with someone’s pain without trying to control the outcome

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Podcast

Secondhand Therapy

Hosted by two men who share and reflect what they've learned on their our therapy journey—offering insight into the therapeutic process and the universal struggles we all face.

This podcast demystifies therapy and normalizes the struggles we often keep hidden. It's like being a fly on the wall in thoughtful, compassionate conversations about what it means to be human.

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Movie

Her

Spike Jonze’s wistful, near-future love story follows Theodore, a lonely letter-writer in Los Angeles who forms an intimate relationship with Samantha, an AI operating system. As their bond deepens, the film becomes less about technology and more about longing, desire, and the strange ways we learn to love—and outgrow what once fit.

What gets me isn’t the idea of dating an AI—it’s how recognizable the yearning is. The film treats intimacy like something we practice: through language, attention, fantasy, and vulnerability. And it captures that particular ache of connection—when it’s real, and still not enough to keep two beings moving in the same direction.

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Movie

Everything Everywhere All at Once

Daniel Kwan and Daniel Scheinert’s genre-bending sci-fi adventure follows Evelyn, a Chinese-American laundromat owner drowning in taxes, family tension, and burnout—until she’s pulled into a multiverse battle where every version of her life is on the table. It’s chaotic, hilarious, and unexpectedly tender about what we owe each other.

Under the absurd multiverse chaos is something quietly profound: a story about family, inherited pain, and the choice to stay present with the people you love. The immigrant experience—and the mother-daughter dynamic—feels deeply real. It’s a reminder that kindness can be a practice, not a personality trait

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Book

Star Child

Claire A. Nivola’s tender, beautifully illustrated picture book follows a curious young star who longs to visit Earth. The elder stars explain that to go, he’ll have to be born as a human child—living through wonder, love, loss, and ultimately letting go. A gentle, cosmic meditation on what it means to be alive.

A small, cosmic story that somehow says a lot with very few words. It’s about choosing to live fully—knowing everything changes—and letting beauty, love, and grief all belong in the same life.

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Book

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

Esther Perel reframes infidelity not as a simple moral failure, but as a window into longing, identity, and the stories we tell about love. Drawing from clinical work and cultural history, she explores why affairs happen, what they can mean to the people inside them, and what it takes to repair—or rethink—a relationship after betrayal.

Perel refuses easy villains and tidy lessons. She holds the pain of betrayal without collapsing it into shame, and she’s brilliant at naming the hidden desires—aliveness, freedom, recognition—that affairs sometimes symbolize. Even when you disagree, the book expands your empathy and gives language for conversations most couples avoid

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Podcast

Smosh Reads Reddit Stories

The Smosh crew reads Reddit’s wildest posts (think AITA, relationship mess, and workplace chaos) and reacts in real time—joking, debating, and occasionally getting weirdly insightful about what people owe each other.

It’s cathartic: equal parts comedy and secondhand stress. You come for the chaos, stay for the moments where someone accidentally says something genuinely wise about boundaries, communication, and why humans are like this

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Book

Mating in Captivity

Esther Perel explores the central tension of long-term love: we crave both safety and excitement, togetherness and autonomy. Through vivid clinical stories and cultural insight, she shows how desire depends on space, otherness, and aliveness—and how couples can cultivate erotic energy without sacrificing trust.

Perel put language to something I’d felt forever: intimacy thrives on closeness, but desire needs a little distance—an edge of mystery. It’s not a ‘fix your relationship’ manual so much as a new way of seeing why passion fades…and how it can return when we make room for aliveness.

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Book

Sister Outsider

Audre Lorde’s essential collection of essays and speeches on racism, sexism, homophobia, and the politics of difference—plus the life-or-death urgency of speaking. With piercing clarity, Lorde writes about anger, silence, self-definition, and the uses of our power in the work of liberation

Lorde doesn’t just ‘inspire’—she instructs. These essays are fierce and intimate at the same time: a guide to naming what harms us, refusing the silence that shrinks us, and turning anger into something precise—clarity, boundaries, action. It’s the kind of book that makes your spine straighter.

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Movie

Nine Days

Edson Oda’s quietly stunning film follows Will, a recluse who interviews unborn souls in a remote outpost, deciding who gets the rare chance to be born. As each candidate shares what draws them to life, the story becomes a gentle, piercing meditation on meaning, grief, and the beauty hidden in ordinary moments.

This one lingers. It asks the biggest questions—why live, what makes a life worth choosing—without turning preachy. There’s an aching tenderness to how it honors small things: sunlight on a wall, a shared laugh, a simple day. It made me want to pay attention.

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Book

The little prince

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s beloved fable follows a pilot stranded in the desert who meets a mysterious boy from a tiny asteroid. Through their conversations—and the Little Prince’s travels among strange adults—the book becomes a gentle critique of grown-up priorities, and a reminder to protect wonder, friendship, and love.

It reads like a children’s story until it quietly becomes a mirror. Every re-read lands differently: loneliness, devotion, grief, and the way we forget what matters when we start treating life like a spreadsheet. It’s soft—but it’s not small.

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